This month, Christmas day is my brother’s new “birthday” into heaven. It’s been 14 years since Brian passed, and although time does heal, I still miss him very much. I sometimes talk to him, ask him to keep an eye on our boys in Italy, think of funny things Brian used to say or do and chuckle, wish he was here, especially during special times when the whole family gets together and even have little talks with him when I need help. I believe he is around us, even at times when we’re not paying attention, and especially when something happens out of the blue that makes us have big belly laughs! Brian was a funny guy and he seems to cause funny things to happen sometimes.
As the holidays are here I know there are so many people missing their passed loved ones, more so now than any other time of the year. Know they are around, celebrating, enjoying family gatherings and even playing jokes on us! Please know that your loved ones are fine, happy and still around you whether you can see them or not.
If you would like to have a reading before Christmas I do have some slots open next 2 weeks. Evenings are available all next week if that will fit your schedule best. Just give me a call or send me an email so we can arrange a good time and day for you.
Have a Merry Christmas and a happy and safe New Year. Know that your people in spirit are just a thought away.
Well, Thanksgiving is over and Christmas is right around the corner. The holidays can be a very difficult time for those who are missing their passed loved ones or loved ones who just can’t be there over this special time. I really wanted to skip this year’s holidays! I know, quite “scroogie” but our sons, David and Jared can’t be here this year. Since we live in Georgia where Dave retired from the Air Force we don’t live around family either, so we wind up being quite alone, save for our friend Claude who we have over every year. We’ve already gotten the boys and Hensley (David’s wife) their Christmas gifts, so I’ve decided to skip Christmas this year. LOL I know…it’s just easier that way! It seems the empty nest syndrome hasn’t gotten any better since 5 years ago! Dave and I are going watch movies all day Christmas day.
Your loved ones in spirit may not be here in the physical, but they will be with you no matter what over these special times. Know that they love to be part of family celebrations and if you take lots of pictures, more than likely you will catch them in your photos! My heart goes out to all the mom’s who’ve lost a child. It is painful enough right now just to have my children far away. I cannot imagine the pain a parent feels when you cannot even pick up the phone and hear your child’s voice. I’m so sorry for your pain and anguish, but know, spirit doesn’t need a phone. Talk to them just the way you normally would. They can hear you! Ask them for a specific sign so you know they are truly around. Signs come in many ways so be open to however they bring them.
A lot of people ask if there is a time limit after someone passes that they can contact us for a reading. The answer is NO! I’ve read so many books by other mediums and heard them speak on the radio about having to wait for a year or two. That is simply not true. I don’t understand why some mediums make rules for spirits when there are no rules in heaven! Think about it, we can do whatever we want in the spirit world and there is no time there, so why would we make a time limit for them? I just don’t get it. This past weekend I did a reading for a man who’s wife passed only 2 weeks ago. The next day I did a reading for a lady who’s friend passed one week ago! Granted, these early spirits might not have the hang of slowing their energy down properly to communicate, but they certainly try their best. Usually someone else will be with them to show them the ropes. The lady who had only passed a week ago I feel had that problem. She kept draining her friend’s phone battery. LOL We did get 40 minutes into the reading though, and that was enough for her to know that her friend was ok and still around. We just went on to other things for the rest of the reading without interruption from her phone battery.
Just remember, if your spirit is too busy, no matter how long they have been crossed over, they won’t show up. It doesn’t happen very often at all, but it does happen. It doesn’t mean they are not ok or in a bad place. Absolutely not! They just can’t do it at that time for some reason. Like I said, it’s very rare. So…if you ever read about psychic mediums placing rules and time limits on spirit communication, pay no attention, it is simply not true. If it were true I must belong on the funny farm because I am hallucinating. LOL I just had to get on my soap box about this. I hate it when people are misinformed.