December 9, 2011
This month, Christmas day is my brother’s new “birthday” into heaven. It’s been 14 years since Brian passed, and although time does heal, I still miss him very much. I sometimes talk to him, ask him to keep an eye on our boys in Italy, think of funny things Brian used to say or do and chuckle, wish he was here, especially during special times when the whole family gets together and even have little talks with him when I need help. I believe he is around us, even at times when we’re not paying attention, and especially when something happens out of the blue that makes us have big belly laughs! Brian was a funny guy and he seems to cause funny things to happen sometimes.
As the holidays are here I know there are so many people missing their passed loved ones, more so now than any other time of the year. Know they are around, celebrating, enjoying family gatherings and even playing jokes on us! Please know that your loved ones are fine, happy and still around you whether you can see them or not.
If you would like to have a reading before Christmas I do have some slots open next 2 weeks. Evenings are available all next week if that will fit your schedule best. Just give me a call or send me an email so we can arrange a good time and day for you.
Have a Merry Christmas and a happy and safe New Year. Know that your people in spirit are just a thought away.
March 21, 2010
A lot of people ask if there is a time limit after someone passes that they can contact us for a reading. The answer is NO! I’ve read so many books by other mediums and heard them speak on the radio about having to wait for a year or two. That is simply not true. I don’t understand why some mediums make rules for spirits when there are no rules in heaven! Think about it, we can do whatever we want in the spirit world and there is no time there, so why would we make a time limit for them? I just don’t get it. This past weekend I did a reading for a man who’s wife passed only 2 weeks ago. The next day I did a reading for a lady who’s friend passed one week ago! Granted, these early spirits might not have the hang of slowing their energy down properly to communicate, but they certainly try their best. Usually someone else will be with them to show them the ropes. The lady who had only passed a week ago I feel had that problem. She kept draining her friend’s phone battery. LOL We did get 40 minutes into the reading though, and that was enough for her to know that her friend was ok and still around. We just went on to other things for the rest of the reading without interruption from her phone battery.
Just remember, if your spirit is too busy, no matter how long they have been crossed over, they won’t show up. It doesn’t happen very often at all, but it does happen. It doesn’t mean they are not ok or in a bad place. Absolutely not! They just can’t do it at that time for some reason. Like I said, it’s very rare. So…if you ever read about psychic mediums placing rules and time limits on spirit communication, pay no attention, it is simply not true. If it were true I must belong on the funny farm because I am hallucinating. LOL I just had to get on my soap box about this. I hate it when people are misinformed.
March 11, 2010
Today is my brother Brian’s birthday. He would be 34 years old today. It’s always a bittersweet day for me when his birthday rolls around, wondering what he might be like if he was still here; would he be married, have children, what would he be doing, etc. -But then, he doesn’t have to worry about any of life’s problems anymore like the rest of us do! He’s free and happy! Brian visits, and I can feel his spirit near me as I type this post. It’s a wonderful feeling, yet makes me want to cry at the same time. So, now Brian has two birthdays; today, and December 25, the day he was “reborn” into heaven. Happy Birthday Brian! I love you.
March 7, 2010
I received a question in my email. I thought it would help others to post the question and my answer!
This is odd for me to write, but for some reason your name drew me to you from a long list of names. In reading the information on your site, I have a question. You refer several times to “past lives or future lives”. How do you know some have had a past life or going to have another life. Are souls/spirits recycled so to speak? If you have a loved one pass on I thought their soul/spirit would be forever in heaven and would see them one day. It would be disheartening to think they are gone to be someone else because it’s certainly not their bodies that get a new life. What are your thoughts on this?
This is going to sound really weird, but just go with it ok? LOL When we are spirit, we are energy. We can be in numerous places at one time. Think about electricity. We can’t see it, but we know it’s in our home, the neighbors’ homes, restaurants, etc. We leave a part of “us” in heaven, which we call our “higher self”. You will always be able to see your loved ones when you pass too, even if they have returned to a body. Our “higher self” knows why we came to earth, what lessons we chose in this life and helps us, similar to a spirit guide. We forget why we came here, but our spirit/soul never forgets. Most of us have been reincarnated hundreds of times. We’ve all been very bad people too! If someone hasn’t been incarnated very many times, they are usually not so great people, not very evolved or enlightened. I feel that when we become as evolved and enlightened as someone like Jesus, we won’t feel the need to return to a body. Even if we’ve had a hard life and think, “Holy cow! I’m not doing this again!”; when we get back to heaven, see what we’ve learned and what we still want to learn, we come back. It’s kind of like us having a baby. We forget the pain and have another one! I hope this helps. I know it can be a bit confusing. There is a book called “Journey of Souls” by Michael Newton you might like to read. You can find it here on my site and purchase it through amazon.com. It’s really interesting and might help answer your questions.
Thanks so much for writing.
February 28, 2010
Hi! I just watched “The Ghost Whisperer” tonight. It was about reincarnation. I love the show and find it so interesting. I never knew there were people out there who could only see spirits who have not gone to the light, or spirit world, or heaven. (Whatever name it is to you) Is that really possible? I don’t know, but I would think that if someone can see spirits who are “stuck” on earth, wouldn’t it make sense that they can see spirits any other time? It’s kind of like the famous medium George Anderson saying he is only a medium and not psychic. I don’t think so! I’ll put it to you this way: All psychics are not mediums, but all mediums are psychic. The psychic ability goes hand in hand with mediumship. Being psychic is the first step, then communicating with spirits is the next step up. See what I mean? Well, back to the show….
Tonight’s show was about reincarnation. It was about a young man who died and totally remembered 4 of his past lives. He really didn’t like life on earth anymore and wanted to go to heaven but felt stuck here. He did not want to live another life. (reincarnate) The show made viewers think that you can’t go to heaven, ever, until you’ve totally evolved and learned all of your lessons so you don’t ever have to come back again. Well, could you imagine that!!?? Imagine how tiring it would be if we had to do it over and over and over without a break. I wouldn’t want to reincarnate again either! So, I’m here to tell you, that’s not how it works. YOU choose if you want to reincarnate again. No one forces us to do anything. Our spirit guides might point out a few things that we didn’t accomplish in our last life, and help us choose our family, friends and “players” in our next life, but never does anyone make us do anything. We have free will. If we were forced to do something we didn’t want to do we certainly wouldn’t have free will.
Hope that cleared up any confusion about the afterlife and reincarnation!
February 26, 2010
When my brother passed away we lived in Germany. My parents and siblings lived in Missouri. In Germany there were two different types of calling plans to call the US. The one we had was a toll free number, we entered a pin number then dialed the number we wanted to call – without the number 1 before the area code. The other plan was a “call back” number. You would dial a number, hang up and when there was a US line available you would get a call back. We didn’t know how to use this one since we dialed direct without the number 1. I didn’t get to talk to my brother while we were in Germany until something happened.
At odd times of the day and night our phone would ring and on the other end we would hear, “Please enter your destination code.” It wasn’t a real person, so we didn’t know what the heck was going on! It would even happen at 3AM! Of course we would just hang up. It happened numerous times a week. One night in November the phone rang again. Same message on the other side, but instead of hanging up I dialed my mom’s phone number – with the 1! What made do that? How did I know to dial the one? I have no idea, but when I called my brother answered. No one else was home, so we got to talk for quite a while. He always made me laugh. He had the greatest sense of humor. Anyway, after our fun conversation I hung up. Guess what? The phone never did that again. It was December when he died. I got a gift from heaven! I had one last conversation with Brian.
About a week or so before Brian died my mom emailed me and said Brian says to say hi and he loves you. That’s the only time he asked to send a message to me in the 7 months we were already in Germany. What a gift that I was able to talk to Brian “one last time” before he passed.
This afternoon my phone rang one time. I answered it and there was a dial tone. The caller ID said my sister’s name and number. I tried calling her back but got no answer. I tried again a few minutes later. No answer. Finally I called in the evening and asked her about the phone call. She said, “No, I didn’t call.” I mentioned maybe my niece did. My sister said, “No, she was in school, nobody was home.” Alrighty then! LOL I told my sister it must have been Brian and if not, Casper! I knew it was from spirit. I feel it was Brian and that my sister’s number showed up so I could verify it wasn’t possible for her to have called!
Pay attention to these little signs! We all get them sometime, but it’s so easy to blow it off and say, “Hmmm, that was weird.” When something like this happens, just acknowledge that you realize it’s from spirit, even if you don’t know exactly who it is. They’re just letting you know they are around. I am very thankful for the little signs I get and love Brian to prove to me that he’s around